It's only a suggestion, and you can do what you please.
这只是个建议,你可按照你的意愿去做。
Modesty is not only and ornament, but also a guard to virtue.
谦逊不仅可增添光彩也可以维护美德。
since her parents had impressed upon her that it would be unforgivable to miss it and cause the friends with whom she was going to stay to make two journeys to meet her.